Friday, July 6, 2012

more costa rica

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We stayed firmly on the beaten track in Costa Rica. We went to typical tourist sites. This was intentional. Mikhail and I - and Mike and Maud, the friends we were traveling with - have done a lot of traveling off the beaten track. At times way off. But for this, our first international travel with kids, we decided that typical tourist amenities were right up our alley.

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In Monteverde, we went full-on nature-tourist. We visited a butterfly/insect exhibit, a snake exhibit (Mikhail happily sat that one out), a frog exhibit, a hummingbird feeding area, and a hanging bridges cloud forest walk.

The butterflies were quite friendly. 

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Perhaps even a little overly friendly.

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Let us just be clear that it is not my breast in the above photo being felt up by a butterfly.

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One even laid eggs on Mike's back. Perhaps it was all that fermented mango they were feeding them.

The snakes, however, were not so friendly. 

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Although that's not fair of me to say. Maybe they were friendly. Maybe they would have loved a little cuddle. But they were behind thick glass, and we weren't getting close enough to find out for ourselves. 

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Mikhail hates snakes. Elan's favorite animals are snakes. And his very favorite snake is the eyelash pit viper, one of the most dangerous venomous snakes found between Mexico and Venezuela. Go figure. 

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Mikhail and I have a theory that our older child thrives off of oppositional energy -- not when it comes to school (at least not so far), or to his age-mates (thankfully), but when it comes to us, his parents. It started at birth. We assumed that, as a first baby, he'd follow statistical trends and be late. But instead, he was a full two weeks early. The weekend he decided to make his grand entrance was not only just before a gigantic work project was due for Mikhail's then-new job, it was also the weekend my parents, our nearest family members when he was born and we were living in North County San Diego, moved out of the house they had lived in for 27 years.

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He says the eyelash viper is his favorite snake because it's yellow, and yellow is his favorite color.

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Let's just say that, from the start, he's liked to keep us on our toes.

This was my favorite snake. 

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The coloring on this guy is magnificent. And he's not actually poisonous, he just looks like a poisonous snake so that predators will leave him alone. Or at least that's the story I remember about him, and after 20 minutes of googling Costa Rican snakes to try to remember his name, I'm willing to stick with that story. Plus, I think there's a metaphor in there somewhere if you go looking for it.

The hummingbirds were, as Maud likes to say, "amazeballs!"

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Hundreds of them zoomed from feeder to feeder, whizzing by your head lightning-fast, with their sharp beaks seeming only inches from your eyeballs. Sometimes I wanted to duck. But I trusted that they knew what they were doing.

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They weren't upset by the red interloper, though they really didn't seem to know what to make of his price tag.

Then there was this.

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Which was quite amazing, so long as I didn't allow myself to consider the possibility of getting lost.

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Or anyone falling off a bridge. Which I did not consider, not for a moment.

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The four of us seasoned travelers (not the kiddos, novices that they are) are known for our loyalty. Once we find a cafe or restaurant that we really like, we go back over and over. In Monteverde, that was a cafe called The Common Cup, which had the kind of Costa Rican coffee we were hoping to drink everywhere but of course only found a few places.

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Note my icy, frothy, chocolate-y coffee drink. Yum.

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And Elan's eating a cinnammon roll, minus the frosting because that qualifies as gooey. Look at that, the kid did eat in Costa Rica!

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Emry was feeling much better.

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And Elan was still in a really good mood.

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At least most of the time.

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*Starred photos - credit Mike Moclair & Maud O'Connor

Tuesday, July 3, 2012

costa rica

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We went to Costa Rica.

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I think Tabacon Hot Springs is my new version of Eden.

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Hot rivers and massage-style waterfalls.

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Black-bottomed pools of varying sizes and temperatures set into the jungle.

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At the base of a volcano.

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There was a water slide, which meant that Elan was in heaven.

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He was in a stunningly good mood for the first part of our trip, which we made sure to enjoy in case it changed suddenly. Which it did, but that's a story for later.

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Emry had a fever for the first four days of our trip, topping off at 103.9 degrees. I had to buy a thermometer at the grocery store in San Jose (Costa Rica, not California) since it was the one thing I forgot to pack. Of course, it was in Celsius, but lucky us, we had the Internet, so we didn't have to actually do math while comforting a toddler who'd just had a rectal temperature taken.

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He might have been glassy-eyed, but he could still live it up at the swim-up bar.

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Kid's a rock star.

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Our hotel room here was a splurge. But it was big enough for an indoor soccer game, so we definitely didn't go wrong.

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And perfect for room service breakfast.

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Which, when you're traveling with two small children, is anything but romantic.

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But then you get this, too, which is pretty fun.

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We were traveling with our Irish travelin' friends, Mike & Maud, who we first met 10 years ago in South America. 

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Bless their souls for traveling with us and our pesky kids. They gave us a date night. They packed the car (our suitcase & duffle on the roof so we could fit all 6 of us in one SUV). They entertained our children. They entertained us.

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And they took many of these awesome pictures.

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I think this is my new happy place.

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*Starred photos - credit Michael Moclair, Maud O'Connor
Thanks for everything, guys!

Thursday, June 21, 2012

hanging with fireflies

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Okay, so these aren't fireflies.
Have you ever tried to take pictures of fireflies? 
Butterflies, Turtle Back Zoo, New Jersey

We went to Costa Rica.

We came home.

Mikhail went on a business trip.

We went on an overnight camping trip with Elan's preschool camping trip.

A giant owl buzzed my windshield. 

Mikhail went on another business trip.

My mother-in-law came to rescue me from the horrors of double-bedtime-alone duty.

Mikhail came home.

Elan graduated from preschool.

I cried.

Just a little.

I got on a plane with my two boys and came to New Jersey to see my extended family.

Grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins, oh my!

And now the three of us are heading to Baltimore to visit my college roommate and her kids.

And then home.

Hi, honey! We miss you!

And then Elan's camp starts.

His first time at summer camp.

It feels like this kid is growing up too fast. 

Can't I slow him down, just for a few months while I catch my breath?

I'm really enjoying seeing my relatives who I only get to see once or twice a year. Watching my kids bond with my Back East family. Driving the crazy New Jersey highways in the minivan with my kids and my parents, everyone playing the alphabet-roadtrip game. Sitting on the porch watching the fireflies light up the forest like miniature fireworks.

I wish we had fireflies in California.

You can't be stressed out while you're hanging with fireflies.

Somewhere in the midst of all this packing and unpacking, I am trying to get my work done and not drop too many balls.

Yesterday, I realized that I had dropped two balls.

I do not like that feeling of How on earth did I forget that?

It's like misplacing your wallet, or your wedding ring.

Except I didn't misplace my wallet or my wedding ring.

Not yet, at least.

I give credit to my new packing system.

I'll tell you about it.

Later.

Really, I will.

Wednesday, June 13, 2012

beginner's mind


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Shadow, Japanese maple, June 2012

Oh, hello.

I've missed you.

More on that later.

I've posted before about YogaToday, but I wanted to direct you to this week's free class (if you missed the free week for this class, you can buy any YogaToday class for a few dollars - you download it and it's yours to do whenever and however many times you want).

If you're a yoga novice, haven't practiced in a while, or are just in need of a centering/grounding activity, I recommend spending 50 minutes virtually transported to Sedona, Arizona. A lot of the classes on YogaToday are fairly strenuous and not appropriate for beginners, but this is a good class for beginners or experienced yoginis looking for a low-key class, say if you're under the weather or having a low-energy evening.

Or someone who feels in need of experiencing beginner's mind for a while.

That would be me, today. Maybe every day.